How to avoid being blindsided by detail
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The document was on the table. It was a big deal and close to done.
The company had been building toward this for months. The strategic logic was sound and there was in-principal agreement. All that remained was working through the final terms.
The call came late one afternoon. The CEO I had been working with for months asked me to look it over because something felt off and she couldn’t name it.
She was right, it was off. Significantly.
The intent of the deal had been clearly articulated. The terms that would give that intent its teeth had not been.
The people who should have known those terms cold, the subject matter experts her organisation was relying on, had left the detail thin. Thin enough to cause serious problems downstream, if not collapse the deal altogether.
In retrospect, the symptom had been visible well before the 11th hour.
She just hadn’t called it.
There is a phrase that circulates in executive teams. You’ve heard it. You may have said it yourself.
“I’m not across the detail, but…”
It sounds like strategic seniority.
It sounds like someone who has learned to operate at the right level, above the weeds, trusting their team.
In my experience, that’s rarely what it is.
When someone in an executive team leads with that phrase, what they’re often signalling is that they haven’t done the work.
The “but” that follows isn’t a strategic observation. It’s a contribution that hasn’t been earned. A way of staying in the room, appearing engaged, without being accountable for the ground they’re standing on.
That’s politics. And it compounds.
When someone in the team is not across the detail they should own, and no one calls it, that gap gets packaged up and passed upward.
It gets presented in a briefing, summarised in a slide, referenced in a recommendation. Each layer of the organisation that passes it on adds a layer of assumed credibility.
By the time it reaches the CEO, the gap has become invisible and what arrives looks complete.
The people working on my client’s deal had been using this phrase for months.
She’d heard it.
She’d noticed the slightly odd cultural register it carried.
She had the instinct that something wasn’t right. She just hadn’t stopped to interrogate what the phrase was telling her about the quality of the work underneath.
And that brings us to the harder problem.
Most of the senior leaders I work with arrived in their roles having built careers on precisely the opposite habit.
They got there because they went deep.
They asked the uncomfortable questions.
They didn’t accept summaries at face value.
They had the instinct, and the skill, to find what was missing.
Then they reached the top and absorbed a different message: let go.
Trust the team. Stay strategic.
Good advice, as far as it goes. Where it becomes costly is when it’s taken to mean that the detail-sensing capability that built the career should be set aside. Because at CEO level, our role isn’t to do the detail. It’s to know when it hasn’t been done. Those are different skills, but they come from the same source.
The leader who built a career by going deep has something most people don’t: a finely tuned sense of what complete work looks and feels like.
That’s a capability to be redirected, not retired.
Which means when you hear “I’m not across the detail, but…” in your team, the next immediate move is to stop. To treat it as a signal rather than a conversational placeholder. And to have a way of responding that keeps you in control of the room while putting the accountability back where it belongs.
Here’s what that looks like in practice.
1. Locate the ownership
The first move is to establish, calmly and without drama, who owns this piece of work. Not who prepared the slide. Who is accountable for the quality of the underlying thinking. Sometimes the person using the phrase owns it and is signalling they haven’t done it. Sometimes they’re covering for someone else who hasn’t. You need to know which before you go further.
Try: “Who’s closest to this?” or “Whose work is this based on?”
2. Test the ground
Once ownership is clear, probe whether the substance is there. This isn’t an interrogation. It’s one or two questions that only someone who has done the work can answer well. A vague or deflecting answer tells you what you need to know.
Try: “Walk me through how you arrived at that.” or “What would change about this if [key variable] shifted?”
3. Reset the expectation
If the groundwork isn’t there, name it once, directly and dispassionately. The language matters here. What you’re doing is resetting the standard without making it personal.
“Who in your team knows the detail? Bring them into the conversation and we’ll come back to this tomorrow.”
Notice what that sentence does without saying any of it directly. It generously assumes the detail exists somewhere. It identifies that the person in the room is not the right person for this conversation. It creates a consequence without framing it as a punishment. And it puts the accountability back on them to produce someone who can stand behind the work.
The composure is load-bearing.
These questions work because they’re asked without heat. The control in the room comes from the quality of the question, not the force behind it.
Applied consistently, this changes the culture of the room. People learn quickly that “I’m not across the detail, but…” doesn’t buy them a seat at the table. It costs them one. The phrase either disappears, or the people using it do.
Both outcomes are fine.
The deal my client was reviewing got across the line. The terms were tightened, the right people were asked the right questions, and the agreement was stronger for it. The 11th hour scramble was uncomfortable, but survivable.
What she took away from it wasn’t a new process.
It was permission to trust her own instincts again. To recognise that the capability she had been quietly told to set aside was, at this level, one of her greatest assets.
And to act on it earlier next time, before the document is on the table.
So here’s my question for you: When did you last hear that phrase in your team and what did you do with it?
PS If this essay resonated, Episode 170 (How CEOs can train teams to deliver decision-ready information) from my podcast is worth 10 minutes of your time. Listen to it on Apple Podcasts or Spotify
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